Our wedding will be a formal affair. Gentlemen are encouraged to wear a suit and tie or a tuxedo, while ladies can opt for a floor-length gown or formal cocktail dress. Please avoid colors of white/ivory/cream for the weekend.

We ask that our guests do not bring anyone not specifically named on the invitation. There is a limit on guests we can invite and cannot accommodate plus ones. If we forgot someone special please let us know, but understand that our limitations may mean our hands are tied. Thank you so much for understanding!

Once the formal invitations have been sent, the deadline to RSVP is October 17, 2026. You will be able to RVSP through this website once formal invitations are sent.

If you are unable to RSVP by October 17, 2026, unfortunately you will be marked as a no. Our vendors require we get a final headcount by this time. We will miss celebrating with you and hope you understand! If there are extenuating circumstances, please let us know and we will try our best to accommodate.

While there will be plenty of food options available, please let us know if you have specific allergies that need to be addressed.

Yes, we kindly request that our ceremony be unplugged. Please turn off and put away all phones and cameras during the ceremony as we would love for you to be fully present with us as we say “I do.” But don't worry, we have set aside a special moment during the ceremony where guests will be invited to take photos.

Hotel reservations will be made via Rough Creek Lodge's coordinator beginning on June 1, 2026. Please visit the Travel tab for more details.

While we absolutely adore your little ones, this particular celebration is reserved just for the grown-ups. We kindly ask that you make arrangements for the kiddos at home and join us for a fun, adults-only weekend. Please reach out if you have any questions or extenuating circumstances.